ANCRAM, NEW YORK – Bonnie Lee Lilley, 68, of Ancram, NY passed away surrounded by loved ones on March 1, 2023. Born April 27, 1954, in Hudson, NY she was the daughter to the late Ralph Kilmer and Lorraine (Sulkey) Kilmer. Bonnie is survived by her loving husband of 53 years, Thomas Lilley, children: Garett "Scott" Lilley and Mandy Lilley (Chris Hough). Grandchildren: Kirsten (Cory) Gaylord, Christopher (Alexandra) Hough, Brett Hough. Cherished great grandchildren: Aleah and Jameson Hough. As well as her brother Ralph (Sandy) Kilmer, sister Rose (Kenny) Boyles. In addition to her parents, Bonnie was predeceased by her youngest sister, Dawn Kilmer (Gary Bruise). Bonnie loved to spend Sundays surrounded by her family and friends. This is how her family would like to honor her, with a celebration of life. Details will be announced at a future time. Cremation has taken place through the care of Simple Choices, Inc. Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared with the Lilley Family, online at: SimpleChoicesCremation.com