In life what Jay loved most was caring for Sue and Bandit. Their life together spanned over 36 years. The simple keys to the success of their love included; never failing to make each other laugh everyday about something, never failing to kiss each other good night and never saying good-bye but instead, see you later. Bandit aka "Boochie" was his 4-legged kid. Jay was always a lover of animals, a Fox News follower and a weather fanatic. His knowledge was phenomenal. Jay was a jack-of-all-trades. He loved carpentry. There was nothing he couldn't fix, build or create. He loved NFL football -a Patriot fan. Enjoyed cooking, "why eat out when I can make it." Jay was always there to help family and friends in need. However, he never asked anyone for help in return. Jay walked into Sue's life and helped raise 3 beautiful children Jessica, Rachel, and Christopher. They gave him 6 grandchildren. Jay's passing was all too sudden and early in life. For this reason, please do not contact Sue. She is currently recovering from heart surgery as well as her sudden loss. Jay was her heart, soul, and every breath she took. -January 14th 1949 - September 30th 2014